First Steps 

We'll always be here to help you through one of Life's most difficult times. A Saint Thomas More funeral is available to everyone, giving support before, during and after the service, for as long as it's needed.

First Steps In Arranging A Funeral

After the initial news of the death of someone you knew and loved, there are some important things that need to be done. These are two of the more immediate things:

  1. Register the death. 

  2. Meet a Funeral Director

The Funeral Director will talk to you about what kind of funeral you would like.

One of the first questions they’ll ask is whether you’d like a burial or a cremation. You might like to discuss this with other family members if you’re not sure what the preference was of the person who died.


You’ll then be asked where you would like the service to be held. There’s more you can find out about locations on this site.

The Funeral Director will ask about various details, including:

  • Whether the funeral should be civil, humanist or religious. Remember you don’t have to be religious or a churchgoer to have a St.Thomas More funeral – it is open to all.

  • Whether there is a particular minister or celebrant you have in mind to take the funeral.

  • What sort of coffin you would like.

  • How you would like the coffin to be transported to the service.

  • Whether you would like flowers.

  • They might ask whether you have any thoughts on music or other special ideas to reflect the life of the person you knew. The person who leads the service will talk to you more about this.


If you choose to have a St. Thomas More Funeral someone from the church will visit you to listen to the story of the person you knew, and will go through all the details of the funeral service itself.

Arranging A Funeral

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